There's something to be said for surety. I don't particularly do well with people who don't know their own mind, honestly. Or aren't quick about finding it at least.
[If they're discussing sex specifically - which Kim knows they are, at least on one level - he can do with someone who doesn't initially know what they want. Will had been rather new to most sexual experiences with men when they first got together but he'd learned to hold his own very quickly.]
I wouldn't think it that odd. For one thing, "not many" isn't none. For another, I'm sure you've come across those who need an excessive amount of either direction or reassurance.
Only you, so far. I hope you don't take offense at my saying that I'm not sure. It's only that I AM currently meeting the requirement we've been set and that going any further feels like a betrayal to someone not present in the city.
[Never mind that he is going further. But he needn't add more people to that.]
I'd take you up on the offer otherwise. Vrenille said he thought we'd make a good match that way and I suspect he's not often wrong about these things.
In what ways he considered us to be a good match, but I'm sure you can piece together my meaning and considering how you're trying to refrain from temptations, I'd rather not give you ideas.
Probably for the best, you're right. In any event, at the risk of sounding too condescending, I do appreciate the interest. I'll let you know should I change my mind?
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I don't particularly do well with people who don't know their own mind, honestly. Or aren't quick about finding it at least.
[If they're discussing sex specifically - which Kim knows they are, at least on one level - he can do with someone who doesn't initially know what they want. Will had been rather new to most sexual experiences with men when they first got together but he'd learned to hold his own very quickly.]
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What an odd thing to say- I can’t say I’ve been with many who don’t know their own mind.
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For one thing, "not many" isn't none. For another, I'm sure you've come across those who need an excessive amount of either direction or reassurance.
Those are the types I mean.
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Yes, I have come across those types. They’re nice, but at times it can be a bit… tiresome.
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I've much more interest in those who already know what they're about.
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Which is why I reached out to you in the first place.
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Yes, that does make sense, and I appreciate that.
Truth be told though, I'm not sure that I AM looking for new partners. At least not repeat ones.
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Have you had any bites since this thing went up?
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I hope you don't take offense at my saying that I'm not sure. It's only that I AM currently meeting the requirement we've been set and that going any further feels like a betrayal to someone not present in the city.
[Never mind that he is going further. But he needn't add more people to that.]
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None taken. I understand.
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I'm not disagreeing, just curious about things... I'm certain the two of us would be a lovely sight.
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[Kim knows he's flirting with, well, flirtation. He shouldn't, he has an idea of what things Dorian means. And yet.]
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In any event, at the risk of sounding too condescending, I do appreciate the interest. I'll let you know should I change my mind?
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